Links

Poetry Foundation: for all things poetic that aren’t Mark Nepo. The app allows you to find a random poem based on an emotion.

http://www.poetryfoundation.org/

Court Case:

https://www.canlii.org/en/bc/bcsc/doc/1998/1998canlii4494/1998canlii4494.html?autocompleteStr=CC980546&autocompletePos=1

Virgin Journey:

https://kehudson.wordpress.com/teaching-support-materials/

CCPA Code of Ethics:

https://www.ccpa-accp.ca/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/CodeofEthics_en.pdf

Munchausen By Proxy with Psychiatric Features:

http://www.esciencecentral.org/journals/munchhausen-syndrome-by-proxy-with-psychiatric-features-2375-4494.1000151.pdf

New Yorker: How People Learn to Become Resilient:

http://www.newyorker.com/science/maria-konnikova/the-secret-formula-for-resilience

Data on Catharsis:

http://www-personal.umich.edu/~bbushman/PSPB02.pdf

The Science of Affection:

https://www.brainpickings.org/2016/07/07/love-at-goon-park-harry-harlow-deborah-blum/

The Real Victims of Victimhood:

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/12/27/opinion/sunday/the-real-victims-of-victimhood.html?_r=0

Why Being Good Gives People License to Misbehave:

http://phenomena.nationalgeographic.com/2009/04/06/our-moral-thermostat-why-being-good-can-give-people-license-to-misbehave/

Critique of Gestalt:

http://www.counseling.org/docs/david-kaplan%27s-files/wagner-moore.pdf

Verbal Overshadowing in Face Identification:

http://digitalcommons.utep.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1005&context=christian_meissner

Hero Syndrome:

http://www.cji.edu/site/assets/files/1921/the_hero_syndrome.pdf

Counsellor Using Punks DIY Ethic to Promote Mental Health

http://www.huckmagazine.com/perspectives/counsellor-using-punks-diy-ethic-promote-mental-health-punk-community

On Being Too Much:

https://www.brainpickings.org/2015/06/08/adam-phillips-on-balance/?mc_cid=2e3899f2b7&mc_eid=cc78da4a74

Groupthink:

http://www.regent.edu/acad/global/publications/elj/vol4iss1/Rose_V4I1_pp37-57.pdf

Symptoms of Leaving a Cult:

http://www.exitsupportnetwork.com/recovery/emotdiff.htm

Court Case:

http://caselaw.canada.globe24h.com/0/0/british-columbia/supreme-court-of-british-columbia/1998/11/04/r-v-mckeen-1998-4494-bc-sc.shtml

Jesus Camp 10 Years Later:

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2016/jul/06/jesus-camp-christian-documentary-kids-10-years-later

Junot Diaz on Race, Art, Success, Likability:

https://www.brainpickings.org/2016/03/21/junot-diaz-upstairs-at-the-strand/?mc_cid=0379a5846e&mc_eid=cc78da4a74

Allan Watts on Meaning:

https://www.brainpickings.org/2016/11/01/alan-watts-wisdom-of-insecurity-3/

Ursula Le Guin on Power, Oppression, Storytelling:

https://www.brainpickings.org/2016/05/06/ursula-k-le-guin-freedom-oppression-storytelling/

Love in Infant Monkeys: The Science on Affection:

https://www.brainpickings.org/2016/07/07/love-at-goon-park-harry-harlow-deborah-blum/

Kierkegaard on Conformity:

https://www.brainpickings.org/2014/11/26/kierkegaard-individual-crowd-conformity-minority/

 

Videos (yes, I know I spend too much time on YouTube):

Zizek: Wisdom is Disgusting

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1siWHmKV5c

Traumatic Narcissism:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TISvFOq-kMw&spfreload=10

Analysis of HBO’s “In Treatment”:

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4A8B04D2D26D78C0

Irvin Yalom on “In Treatment”:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5CiNiO4bnU

UBC: “He Who Speaks Does Not Know”: Getting Beyond Language

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HhzMwDg66Ao

Wittgenstein film clips on language:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r0cN_bpLrxk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ILlvG78ZldQ

Ethan Watters on mental illness:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=slHZkCX1Ybk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-MRePe5hL4

Bruce Alexander on addiction:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XhK-6jSN3x8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7axaXQmdBVQ

Sorry, We Can’t Ban Everything That Offends You:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z5vMlQTLJX0

Jonathan Haidt: Why Good People are Divided by Politics and Religion:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ONUM4akzLGE

Jonathan Haidt: Contentious Culture:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHc-yMcfAY4

Carl Rogers therapy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ee1bU4XuUyg

Beautiful Sentence (healing through poetry in prison):

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=POEsnRboTiM

Protesting Princeton’s Racist Legacy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wnRLxqFmoCg

All videos by Zizek, Rogers and Yalom

 

Podcasts

I feel like:

http://www.npr.org/2016/05/24/479302241/irked-by-the-way-millennials-speak-i-feel-like-its-time-to-loosen-up

Epigenetics and Generational Trauma:

http://www.onbeing.org/program/rachel-yehuda-how-trauma-and-resilience-cross-generations/7786

Trauma Informed Schools

http://www.cbc.ca/radio/ideas/all-in-the-family-part-2-1.3532422

The Psychology Behind Morality:

https://soundcloud.com/onbeing/sets/jonathan-haidt-the-psychology

The Problem with the Solution:

http://www.npr.org/programs/invisibilia/483855073/the-problem-with-the-solution

The Perils of Power:

http://www.npr.org/2016/09/06/492305430/the-perils-of-power

How Shyness and Introversion Can Be A Strength:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p047k2rx

 

Books I have read and recommend:

Trapped In the Mirror: Adult Children of Narcissists in their Search for Self

The Globalization of Addiction: A study in the poverty of the spirit by Bruce Alexander

Love’s Executioner and Other Tales of Psychotherapy by Irvin D. Yalom

Crazy Like Us: The globalization of the American psyche by Ethan Watters

Identity and the Life Cycle by Erik Erikson

Childhood and Society by Erik Erikson

Identity Youth and Crisis by Erik Erikson

The Spiritual Life of Children by Robert Coles

The Moral Life of Children by Robert Coles

Ethics for Professionals and Counselors: A proactive approach by Anderson and Handelsman

Civilization and its Discontents by Freud

Beyond Good and Evil by Nietzsche

Many Roads, One Journey by Charlotte Kasl

Books I haven’t read but would like to or would recommend for those in the counselling profession:

Everything by: Jung, Nietzsche, Foucault, Yalom, Freud, Wittgenstein, Virginia Satir, Carl Rogers

Traumatic Narcissism: Relational Systems of Subjugation by Daniel Shaw

The Righteous Mind: Why good people are divided by politics and religion by Jonathan Haidt

Justice: What’s the right thing to do by Michael Sandel

The Virgin’s Promise by Kim Hudson

Let me know yours!

 

and, of course, The Haven itself:

http://haven.ca/

PS some links related to Haven content conveniently disappear once I post them. Their website obviously isn’t one of them, but others do disappear. I do not catch these always.

Other Haven Blogs:

http://haven.ca/stay-connected/news

http://tobymacklin.com/

http://susanbclarke.com/

Haven Leadership Summit actually had some amazing things going on. Definitely necessary! New ideas, acknowledgment of power, acknowledgment of the need for Haven to change. (Apart from the irony that I was being scapegoated and blocked at the time.) The pre-summit webinar is not very useful, the summit videos have some great stuff. Found here:

http://www.haven.ca/leadership-initiative#succession